The impact of hormones - inside and out
The NHS advise that most of the physical and psychological side-effects of early pregnancy are - you guessed it - down to hormonal changes, which can bring with them mood swings, constipation and ‘morning sickness’. (Which, if you ask us is a little misleading as it often lasts all day).
Many moms-to-be can feel low during this time, which then brings on the guilt. ‘I was so thrilled when I discovered I was pregnant, but just a week later I felt nauseous all the time and struggled to find anything I wanted to eat,’ says Helen, mom to one-year-old Noah.
‘I was tired and moody, but felt guilty too - pregnancy was something I wanted so much, so I’d expected to feel happier, particularly as my best friend at the time was going through IVF. I really didn’t realise how common this is.’
First trimester anxiety
There’s no ‘normal’ pregnancy but it is totally normal to feel all kinds of difficulties in the first trimester, not to mention anxiety. ‘My wife had had two miscarriages before her third pregnancy, so that first trimester was a lot of nervousness and tensions between us,’ says Paulo, father to twins Arthur and Will. ‘By about 14 weeks my wife was feeling a lot better, we’d started telling people and that’s when I really let myself get excited.’
The first trimester isn’t always fun but things do tend to settle down as your body gets into the swing of things so go easy on yourself, focus on the positives (you’re pregnant - woohoo!) and of course if there is anything you’re worried about, always contact a health professional.